Understanding the Law of Attraction

Discover the Secrets of Happy Couples

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 14:30:00 +0000

With Kim Olver’s new book, Secrets of Happy Couples: Loving Yourself, Your Partner, and Your Life, you’ll have a more loving and satisfying relationship. Because of my relationship with Kim, you got a sneak peak at the valuable advice in the book via the Law of Attraction in Love Radio Show on Monday January 31^st when I interviewed Kim before the official launch of her book! If you didn’t get a chance to catch it live, you can listen to or download the archives for f’ree!

Secrets of Happy Couples explains:

Exclusive insights and suggestions gained by researching and surveying happy couples
Practical advice from a range of experts synthesized into learnable lessons
Tips for identifying problems and what to do about them
A unique and novel 3-step process for surviving affairs
The power of moving beyond "tolerating" differences to truly appreciating them
How to meet your partner's needs and your own at the same time

PLUS! If you purchase TODAY you will receive more than 60 phenomenal free gifts valued at over $3,500.00! But you must purchase NOW to get your free gifts! Go to http://www.SecretsofHappyCouples.com

I wholeheartedly recommend this book to people looking for a more satisfying relationship in their lives (and that’s not just because I was one of the “experts” interviewed for the book)! Whether you are looking for your ultimate love relationship or hoping to improve the one you already have, Secrets of Happy Couples will provide you with a roadmap to a happy, fulfilling and satisfied relationship.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan

PS This is one of the books I will be recommending from now on, to everyone, as one of their relationship “bibles”. Why? Because the information in it is FUNDAMENTAL. Kim has done a wonderful job putting this book together and it is an easy read.

Secrets of Happy Couples

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Sat, 29 Jan 2011 10:44:00 +0000

Wow! What a busy month. And there is more to come. I am so excited to bring you the most amazing teachers in the field of relationships and Law of Attraction.

Monday, I've added an extra Law of Attraction in Love radio show segment called Secrets of Happy Couples. My colleague Kim Olver has written an amazing book documenting the common threads that all happy couples seem to have. She interviewed relationship experts, including me, as well as conducting her own research on "real" happy couples.

Whether you're single or already in a relationship that could use a "boost", I feel that Kim Olver's book is one of those special books that will be known a must-read book for anyone looking to have a happy fruitful relationship. It was written to help people in committed relationships find happiness within themselves and with each other. It is the second in the InsideOut Empowerment Series.

So join me Monday as I interview Kim Olver. Details are below:

January 31, Monday, 12 NN EST or 9 AM PST

Call in number: (347) 945-6313 and then punch in “1” so I will see you in the moderator queue (so I can un-mute your line)

The show will be posted on www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren, and you can use/download this afterwards

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan

PS there are a few days left for our eBook special! Purchase my Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook and receive special bonuses: see the details on our special secret link: www.lawofattractioninlove.com/holiday. The special is until January 31st.

PPS Stay tuned! I have a very important announcement on an upcoming free course for singles who wish to attract their soulmates!

All You Need is Love

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 16:38:00 +0000

Dear Movie Lover,

Love. It’s as essential to life as air, water and food. To give love, receive love and sometimes even to sacrifice our own wishes for the higher good of those we do love… these are the topics of a remarkable collection of films from our friends at Spiritual Cinema Circle.

Spiritual Cinema Circle, a community of conscious filmmakers and film lovers who appreciate inspiring films, can help you rediscover love again by offering you your first month of movies FREE (just pay shipping).

Why would I recommend “feel good” and “empowering” movies to you? Because, as you probably already know, your personal vibration/frequency rises when you feel good. When you feel good, you attract the “good” things you life you want including happier relationships, career, etc.

I believe there is much too much negativity in our media. I even notice that on Facebook, people are more likely to comment on “bad” news than on “good” news. It is a habit that I for one, want to be conscious of ending.

Few people like the people at Spiritual Cinema are dedicated through film to make a positive difference in people’s lives at a core level. So that is why I want to share this important offer to you.

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Beautiful Dreamer is a captivating feature film about devotion and selfless love, starring James Denton of Desperate Housewives.

With your Free DVD, you’ll also receive an exclusive and transformative master class from Byron Katie. Acclaimed by both Eckhart Tolle and Oprah, she has helped millions of people through her inquiry process called, The Work®. In this exclusive master class Bryon Katie teaches how the beliefs you hold can change the reality you see. Her teachings lead to greater joy and self-love. I LOVE this woman’s work. Her story is amazing. You just HAVE to see this!

Two award-winning short films also complete the collection on love from Spiritual Cinema Circle.

As Valentine’s Day approaches, we are pleased to offer you the opportunity to give yourself a loving gift and receive these four films on DVD for just the cost of shipping ($4.95 in the US). Yippee!

Watch the trailers now!

Enjoy the movies!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen

Dr. Karen answers questions on the Law of Attraction...

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 18:12:00 +0000

Whether you celebrate the "holidays" this time of year or not, I'd like to offer you wishes of a great blessed New Year. In case you didn't know, I was recently interviewed by The Power Connection radio regarding the Law of Attraction. I thought you might like to download or listen to the free archived show HERE.

We discussed the following issues, using real-life examples so you can apply it to your life easier and quicker:
*Working against the grain
*Uncovering beliefs and emotions that pose as obstacles
*Knowing About the Law of Attraction & actually applying it are two different things
*Improving your Law of Attraction ability
*Creating congruency with Expectations and Actual Outcome

Also, before January 31st, if you haven't yet purchased my Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook, you'll want to do so by then because we're adding in an extra eBook from my friend and hypnotherapist called How to Use Hypnosis to Lose Weight, Look Good and Feel Great (in case that is personal interest to you) in addition to the other two extra books...

If you're interested to find out more, here is the special holiday promotion link: www.lawofattractioninlove.com/holiday.

If you've purchased the eBook during the month of December and would like to be emailed a copy of the extra book, just send a request to support @ lawofattractioninlove.com with your name, invoice or purchase number and date of your purchase.

Blessings to you!
Dr. Karen
PS Feel free to comment and let me know what you thought of the radio show interview!

Can a computer program help you manifest your soulmate?

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Wed, 17 Nov 2010 06:35:00 +0000

Last week I told you about the launch of a piece of software that can "charge" your water with your intentions in a way that is very stable and very strong. When you drink this water, it will amplify your ability to manifest your deepest desires. It even has checks and balances in the program so you can only manifest what is in your highest and greatest good.

Hard to believe eh?

Well, given that I LOVE science and I'm a technie, I wanted to know more about it, so I called up the inventor, Peter Schenk, and he agreed to do an interview with me!

If this is all new to you and you don't know what I'm talking about here's the link with more information on the program:

http://lawofattractioninlove.com/thesourxepage

So here's what I want from you: please go to my BLOG POST and post a comment with your questions for Peter that I can ask when I interview him.

I need your questions no later than this Saturday!

Examples:

Can you charge the water with more than one intention at a time?
If you put flavorings in the water does it cancel out the effects?
Do you have to use positive intention statements or can you use negative ones and it will still work eg. My shoulder pain is gone vs. My shoulder feels comfortable and healthy
Do you have to watch the computer screen or can you walk away from it when it is charging the water?
How can this POSSIBLY work?

Thanks in advance for your questions! Since this is a taped interview we cannot take live question which is why I'm asking you now what you'd like to ask?

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

Release the past with TAT

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 08:21:00 +0000

Wow! I absolutely LOVED interviewing Tapas Fleming and learning about TAT and how we can all just drop the "old" patterns easily and painlessly! If you didn't get a chance to listen to the live Law of Attraction in Love radio show you can download it and listen to it for free.

Here are some YouTube videos about TAT. Watch them and see if it is for you. Ask yourself, are you ready to let go of your old patterns that no longer serve you?

After watching the videos, click on the banner below with Tapas photo to enter her site and download her workbook for free. Also, for one week, she is offering her amazing Better Sex webinar series (9 calls) for just $97 instead of the usual $225....just for YOU, my readers!!! I highly recommend you check it out. After clicking on the banner below, click on the MyTAT and go to Better Sex link to see the discounted price.

Feel free to comment below and let me know what you think!

First video:

Second Video:

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

Have you ben hurt by past relationships?

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 07:59:00 +0000

If you're like many of my coaching clients, you've probably have experienced some degree of pain in your romantic relationships. Not only that, the pain from our familial relationships have a long-lasting impact on us in that we, through the Law of Attraction, continue to experience "re-runs" of the emotional issues we have subconsciously repressed through our childhood.

If you've purchased my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life, you may have done some work on clearing some of this "old" emotional baggage through an energy psychology technique called EFT.

Another energy psychology tool I've been introduced to recently is called TAT, Tapas Acupressure Technique. Instead of tapping on your acupuncture points, the TAT method includes holding your acupressure points during a clearing process where you put your attention on a set of specific statements.

If you've tried EFT and it hasn't worked for you, or you want to learn something new (like me!), you might want to join me on Monday November 15th for my Law of Attraction in Love Blog Talk Radio Show, as I interview TAT creator, acupuncturist Tapas Fleming. Tapas has helped thousands of people with her technique who have suffered from various issues including phobias, anxiety, excess weight, trauma from abuse and rape, financial stress, to name a few.

After facilitating personal growth for many years, Tapas Fleming became interested in physical and energetic healing. She became a Licensed Acupuncturist and began her practice in 1987, specializing in the treatment of allergies. Searching for a simple, effective treatment, she developed TAT in 1993. Tapas soon realized that in addition to relieving her patients’ allergic reactions, TAT was clearing the effects of their past stressful or traumatic experiences in an easy, gentle way. Now one of the most celebrated leaders in energy psychology, Tapas has taught TAT to hundreds of thousands of enthusiastic people worldwide. She always finds it a great pleasure to teach TAT because it is so empowering and liberating and supports people in creating a vibrant, healthy life full of meaning and fulfillment. Tapas lives in Torrance, CA where she has a private practice.

Here are the details:

Monday November 15 at 12 noon EST

www.timezoneconverter.com

www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren

Call in number: (213) 325-3434

Hit "1" if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

Feel free to ask a question during the show! If you can't make it live, you can always listen or download the recording anytime at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren.

Enjoy!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

Genie in your computer

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Thu, 11 Nov 2010 14:00:00 +0000

Believe me, you're probably just as busy as I am. So, just a quick note to remind you to check out that new software, TheSourxe.

I'm using it and loving it, and I'm sure you and your family would benefit as well.

https://www.plimus.com/jsp/redirect.jsp?contractId=2860620&referrer=doctorsk8

You deserve this! (we all do!)

Dr. Karen Kan
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

Did you get to see it?

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Sun, 07 Nov 2010 11:18:00 +0000

I'm just following up with you to see if you had a chance to look at that Reality Creation software I shared with you the other day.

People are reporting amazing results such as:

“As a test I asked to receive a one-hundred dollar bill. Six days later I received not one, but ELEVEN one-hundred dollar bills!” S.B.

“As I'm not a fan of prescription drugs, I tried the software for an ovarian cyst. It's four weeks later and it's almost completely gone!” M.L.

Take a moment to learn more at the following link:

https://www.plimus.com/jsp/redirect.jsp?contractId=2860620&referrer=doctorsk8

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

If 'The Secret' didn't work for you... look at this

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 13:00:00 +0000

It wasn't too long ago when we all watched that Secret movie and got all pumped up about attracting what we wanted using something called, the law of attraction.

Lo-and-behold, it worked all right. We focused our desires and attracted people, events, and things we really wanted... but sadly... a lot of stuff we didn't want as well.

Yep, that's right! We attracted the "bad" stuff too.

How is that possible?

Sure, that wasn't our plan – attracting a lot of negativity – but believe it or not, most of us have so much unconscious programming going on inside our heads that we attract the negative things almost effortlessly. And, the law of attraction is going to reflect our inner world in the outside world.

Thankfully, we now have a NEW high-tech tool that simply by-passes that subconscious negativity and then super-charges our intentions so we attract what we want almost every time we use it...

I got to try it out for seven days and despite my initial "how can this possibly work so quickly?" thoughts, I found myself experiencing positive healing responses in my body the same day!

Sounds pretty amazing, huh?

You can read about it here.

https://www.plimus.com/jsp/redirect.jsp?contractId=2860620&referrer=doctorsk8

Sure, they want you to get the tool, but there's no obligation to buy...

I just want you to read this amazing story and watch the video.

https://www.plimus.com/jsp/redirect.jsp?contractId=2860620&referrer=doctorsk8

So if you're like me, open to all new tools to help us manifest positive experiences in our lives, then you'll at least check it out. I'm also kind of a tech-lover...apparently an iPhone version is coming out and I am really looking forward to the Android version for my new phone.

I've asked the creator to be my guest on a future Law of Attraction in Love Radio show, so stay tuned for details...you can submit your questions in advance! I've got a ton myself.

So am I buying it?

Yes, for sure.

I have big goals and dreams. Anything that can ease my transition to my greatest dreams is highly welcome. If this resonates with you, check it out. If not and you're not into technology, forget it. It's not for you.

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

Law of Attraction, Money and Kids

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 07:11:00 +0000

How to create a brighter financial future for your children

If you have children or you have family members with children and you want to make a positive impact on their early development by instilling positive ideas about money, there has never been a more important time than today to help them learn about money.

The bad news about the economy, recession and doom and gloom is everywhere.
What can you do to help those you love grow up with the money skills, values and beliefs to thrive whatever life may throw at them?

The Financial Fairy Tales are a highly acclaimed inspirational series of books which share positive money messages with the under 10s. As the Law of Attraction would have it, my partner James and I were "wishing" that someone would write some positive inspirational money books for kids. We felt we didn't have the time to do it ourselves, so like "magic" I heard about these special books for youngsters and immediately wanted to share them with you.

Today sees the release of The Magic Magpie, a fun adventure story with important lessons for life.

You and your child will love sharing the ups and downs of Hannah and her brother Jacob. Hannah falls for the 'shiny penny' and the quick and easy way to wealth. Her mistake lands her brother in Giant trouble and she must use her skills, passion and talents to save the day.

The Magic Magpie takes everyday lessons which all parents can relate to and spins them into an enchanting fairy story in the classic tradition of Jack and The Beanstalk or Cinderella.

Special Bonus information

When you purchase the Magic Magpie today you will also receive your choice from over 30 partner gifts valued in excess of $1,500.

Top experts, authors and coaches are happy to support this lovely book because of its positive messages and you can benefit today from over $1,500 in gifts.

Click here and find out what's waiting for you:

http://www.thefinancialfairytales.com/magic

Remember this is a limited time offer. Don't delay and miss this opportunity.

I'm sending copies to my niece and nephew today!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen

Good News! F-ree Think and Grow Rich Book still available

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 07:33:00 +0000

I'm really surprised, but apparently you can still get a F-ree hard copy of the "Law of Attraction" classic, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I'm told that this will go on for at least October 31st. If I were you, I'd get it now...

Get the details here:
http://www.FreeTGRbook.com/DrKaren

Vic and Lisa Johnson are doing this crazy marketing test where they’re giving away Napoleon Hill’s “Think & Grow Rich.” I’m helping them with their big giveaway and wanted to make sure you got your copy before they take this offer down.

Feel f-ree to pass this on to friends. They can get one too if they act right away. This is one of my highly recommended books. Why? Because it is all about our mind, our attitudes and how that determines what we manifest in our lives.

Tell us where to send it, and we’ll send you the number one success book of all time.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

P.S. Vic and Lisa are actually shipping these so you need to give them your address before they run out. Details here:
http://www.FreeTGRbook.com/DrKaren

Think and Grow Rich Book Giveaway

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 06:17:00 +0000

Tell us where to send it, and we'll send you the number one success book of all time.

Vic and Lisa Johnson are doing this crazy marketing test where they're giving away Napoleon Hill's "Think & Grow Rich." I'm helping them with their big giveaway and wanted to make sure you got your copy before they take this offer down.

Get the details here:
http://www.FreeTGRbook.com/DrKaren

Feel free to pass this on to friends. They can get one too if they act right away. This is one of my highly recommended books. Why? Because it is all about our mind, our attitudes and how that determines what we manifest in our lives.

I've given away an eBook copy of this before, but Vic and Lisa are generously giving away the actual hard book! Wow. It is a classic you don't want to be without.

I know you'll love it!

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

P.S. Vic and Lisa are actually shipping these so you need to give them your address before they run out. Details here:
http://www.FreeTGRbook.com/DrKaren

Radio Show Monday: Dr. Eldon Taylor's back!

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Sat, 11 Sep 2010 08:20:00 +0000

It's Radio Show Monday this September 13, and we have Dr. Eldon Taylor back on the show!

Eldon Taylor, Ph.D., is a world renowned author, dynamic speaker, former criminalist and one of the world’s foremost experts on preconscious information processing, and is also the author of more than three hundred InnerTalk® personal empowerment audio and video programs and his work has been published in the likes of Newsweek and Annals of Psychotherapy. One of his renowned books, Mind Programming, is a riveting expose on the plethora of research that has been carried out simply to discover ways to control your every thought and desire.

On this show, Dr. Taylor will discuss how we are being "brainwashed" by others and will share examples of this "brainwashing" in advertising. He will also cite his favorite "tools" from the chapter on Practical Metaphysics, how the subliminal Inner Talk CDs benefit those who use it for at least one hour a day and will discuss his newest release/book What Does It Mean?

Here are the details:

Monday September 13, 2010 at 12 noon EST

www.timezoneconverter.com

www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren

Call in number: 347-945-6313

Hit "1" if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

It Takes Courage to Be Free

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 07:07:00 +0000

Something really big is taking place today, and I knew you wouldn't want to miss it...

Today, September 8, my friend Guy Finley and over 70 other leading authors and experts have come together for one special reason: to give you the power and the tools you need to transform your life.

They have compiled a special collection of life-altering success secrets — including one of my favorites: Stop Fear Now with 6 Simple Steps! And they are giving them all away for one day.

You can go here now to get filled in on all the details:

http://www.TheCourageToBeFree.org/special/CD1795/

Guy has written a highly-anticipated new book that is being simultaneously released today in 142 countries. This book is so vital to helping you make the positive changes you want in your life — and Guy is so well respected by his peers — that myself and over 70 other authors and experts are joining in to spread the word. It's that important!

If it's your wish to walk through this world with a fearless heart and an open, creative mind that's passionate about its own higher possibilities — this is your chance to learn EXACTLY how, and get OVER 70 BONUS GIFTS to boot.

Now is the time to take the first step into a whole new you!

Go here now to find out more:

http://www.TheCourageToBeFree.org/special/CD1795/

All best wishes for a fearless life...I believe in you!

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. Be sure to share this email with your friends and family so that they can also learn how to discover the life they long for — and get 70 gifts from leading experts at the same time. They'll thank you for it!

Please send me some Energy this week!

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 16:16:00 +0000

This week marks the time when everything comes together after two years of preparation, where my partner and I get the opportunity to push ourselves past our limit of comfort to test all that we've learned in the spiritual arena.

It all comes down to two minutes and forty seconds.

And I'm asking for your support...Energetic support. There's nothing to buy, nothing to donate except a few moments of your time and the energy of loving positive thoughts and well-wishes. That's it!

Do you know how powerful you are?

I know. That is why I'm asking you for support. And if for whatever reason, it doesn't feel right for you, that's OK too.

You'd be amazed at the power of an intention shared by a group of like-minded people! If you've read The Intention Experiment by Lynne McTaggart, you'll know what I'm talking about!

This week, my dream partner and I will be competing at the Adult National Figure Skating Championships. We've had our ups and downs over the last two years (frozen shoulder, various injuries, arguments, miscarriage, emotional stuff, etc.), but everyone does. I'm sure you do too.

But there is something magical about intending an outcome and seeing how it manifests. I can guarantee one thing (and it isn't that we'll win a gold medal); that EVERY competition is a new personal growth experience for me.

Last time we competed at Nationals, I learned that "I don't have to be perfect to win". It was a valuable lesson because my achilles heel is always striving for perfection.

In 2008 when James and I won our first gold, I was happy to witness how unattached I was to the gold medal. We had messed up badly (or so we thought) during our performance and I even ended up on my butt in front of the judges! But I was thankful for the experience of feeling at peace despite the mistakes.

To our utter surprise, we still won the gold medal! I felt tears welling up when we found out because it was as if the Universe was rewarding me with how unattached I was to the outcome. In the past I would have been devastated and angry at my partner for the mistakes.

It was if Spirit was saying: "You did good kid for being able to let go of the outcome even though you intended to win and you thought you didn't".

I had learned to let go. This is what you must do as well in order to manifest your dreams as quickly as possible.

So here are my intentions that I'm publically announcing (sometimes a little scary to be this authentic, but here goes!):

James and I skate a passionate, powerful pairs and singles programs to the best of our abilities with full presence; being in the moment.
We inspire others to skate with passion and joy.
We win three gold medals.
We thoroughly entertain the judges and the audience.
We have an amazingly fun time connecting with people and especially with my close friend Peter who will be coaching us there.

Here's how you can help us. Imagine all those intentions coming true and how that would feel for me and imagine how it would feel for you to have helped us achieve our intentions with grace and ease.

Just read the intentions, close your eyes and imagine a scene where it all comes true - the smiles, the applause, the warmth, the fun...

That's it. Just a minute. That's all it takes. And guess what? You just received an energy boost for your OWN dreams by doing this exercise for me. That's how it works in the holographic universe!

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com

PS. please feel free to comment below to share any wisdom, well-wishes and prayers with us. Thanks again! You are AWESOME!

Why Did My Blissful Law of Attraction Relationship Turn Sour?

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 18:16:00 +0000

Hi Dr. Karen,

About 3 years ago I began learning about the Law of Attraction. Single at the time, I immediately made a list of the qualities I desired in a partner and began imagining meeting him. It worked VERY quickly: in 10 days I'd met who I thought was The One. The first year or so was blissful, but I gradually realized that we had MAJOR differences and incompatibilities. Now, 2.5 years into the relationship, our couple is seriously in danger of breaking apart and it has become clear to me that this is not The One after all. My question is this: how did I attract the wrong guy by using what is supposed to be the right method?

Hoping to hear from you,
Katrin

Dear Katrin,

Great question and I’m glad you asked. You did a wonderful thing by intentionally manifesting your partner into your life. You took the time to make a list of qualities you desired in a partner and did your visualizations. Then 10 days later you met him! I hear many stories like yours so we know these Law of Attraction tools work.

So now things are going downhill and you can hardly believe why, and are questioning whether you attracted the wrong person in the first place. Well, I can understand why you’d believe that. We’ve all been conditioned from our parents, television, movies and society to believe that relationships are supposed to be blissful forever and that once you find the “right” person, you’re set for life…or at least it wouldn’t be this challenging?

Right? Ring true…even just a bit?

Here’s the thing. You didn’t attract the wrong guy. You attracted the right guy for where you were when you intentioned him into existence with the Law of Attraction. In other words, you attracted the right person for the level of consciousness you were vibrating at when you made your list. Are you with me so far?

So what went wrong? Well, here’s my perspective. Where we often go wrong in our relationships is that our expectations are unnatural. What do I mean by unnatural? OK, think of your relationship as a plant. What does a plant need to flourish? Water, sun, tender loving care right?

Do you know what most people do in relationship? They “fall asleep”. In other words, they do not nourish the “plant”. They do not tend to the plant on a regular basis. What would happen to a real life plant if one day, while admiring how beautiful it looked, you decided to suddenly stop watering it? After a few weeks, it would wither away and die wouldn’t it? What if you over-watered it and didn’t pay attention to its needs? It would also die.

In nature, something is either growing or dying. Another word for this is transformation. Nothing stands still…not even a rock (that is a quantum physics discussion I’m not going to go into right now). So if a plant is not growing, what is it doing?

It’s dying.

So in relationship, we are rarely taught as children as to how to tend to it, how to properly nourish it. We just assume that since it was beautiful to start with, it should remain so indefinitely.

This is an unnatural expectation!

Some would argue that they do indeed nourish their relationships. Their idea of nourishment means making sure they do their “half” of the chores, paying the bills, taking care of the children, going out eat once in a while, having sex etc. That is NOT what I’m talking about. The grand majority of people I know, myself included, go into a deep slumber when it comes to being conscious of how the relationship is growing or worse yet, if it is growing at all!

Here is how you know whether your relationship is growing:

You discover new things about yourself, how you tick, because of your relationship
You appreciate and discover new things about your partner, gifts you never recognized before
Conflict is less scary and you seem to be able to resolve them faster and easier, even if you disagree
You pursue your personal dreams – your mission – and your partner supports you in that or at least is neutral about it
You allow your partner to be who they are without trying to change them
You and your partner become more conscious of who you really are as individuals and why you attracted each other
You heal old patterns by practicing new ones with your partner
You’re willing to make mistakes in the relationship and learn from them instead of playing it safe all the time

This is not an inclusive list by far, but what I want to emphasize the most is that instead of expecting the relationship to stay the same, we ought to be focusing on actively growing it. We all want a heart-connected relationship, don’t we? But most of the time we get so wrapped up in our daily lives that we lose consciousness of nurturing the relationship. So why do relationships seem more difficult as time goes on? We attract the partners we do because they serve as our spiritual teachers and healing partners. Even abusive ones, believe it or not. Often they play the same role as our parents did so that we can heal our childhood hurts. We literally PULL from them the negative things we experienced as children. If someone had taught us long ago that our partners’ role is to be our teacher, we’d then appreciate them for giving us a new opportunity to HEAL our past hurts. But most people have no idea why they’ve chosen the partner they did. Our partners can highlight for us our deepest shadow…something so uncomfortable that you feel like running away. But if you realize that your partner is your teacher and you can become conscious of what he is bringing up for you, you can heal it. And that does not necessarily obligate you to continue the relationship in its current form (i.e. you can split up if you want to). Since most of us never went to Relationship School 101, myself included, we just muddle along the best we can. But truthfully, we all need guidance, mentorship and skilled support in the area of relationships. So do you want to know what James and I do? Firstly, we’ve committed to a couples session with our spiritual coach/healer on a monthly basis. Most of the time there is nothing “wrong”, but we go because we want to stay “awake” and we want to grow the relationship. It is amazing how quickly each of us can fall asleep! Without that objective third person to “see” through our old patterns, it can be very difficult to realize when we are getting caught up in them. I’m a huge proponent of preventive “therapy”. In other words, I feel that couples that truly wish to flourish for a long time need to be reconnecting in a deeper way either through couples coaching/counseling on a regular basis, or through spiritual retreats and workshops at least twice a year. As well, having a weekly or monthly couples ritual can be vitally energizing to the relationship. Why is it that people only seek “help” when their relationship is on the rocks? I’m sure you already know the answer to that question. Secondly, make sure you dedicate a weekly “Date Night” where the agenda is just fun and connection. Pick something you both like doing and don’t let anything get in the way of “Date night”. If you have to reschedule it on occasion that is fine, but see its importance just like any other important commitment you’ve made such as going to work, brushing your teeth, exercising, paying your mortgage, etc. So Katrin, are you ready to give up on your relationship? You can use the Law of Attraction again and again to intend the type of relationship you wish. It doesn’t end with just attraction The One. And remember, growing requires some degree of getting out of your comfort zone, so get some coaching, guidance and professional support, even if it is only for yourself. What you do not “heal” from your past in this relationship, will resurface in the next (thanks to the Law of Attraction). You cannot escape it. It is part of becoming the biggest, happiest SELF you can become. You might as well become conscious of what you are supposed be learning in this relationship before you abandon it completely. I believe in you. Blessings, Dr. Karen Kan www.lawofattractioninlove.com PS Let me know what you think of this article by commenting below. PPS As you may know, I’m an avid reader of all sorts of personal growth books. This month, I’m highly recommending these two books: Co-Dependent No More by Melody Beattie and The Power of Full Engagement by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz.

Mindfulness Meditation

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:25:00 +0000

Deepak Chopra is one of the true Law of Attraction masters. I have enjoyed many of his books and videos and I thought I’d share one called Mindfulness Meditation. Our abilities to connect with that “quiet space” amidst a crazy busy life is key to manifesting our dreams. Our abilities to control our reaction to the thoughts that come up in our minds and choose other more peaceful thoughts is the real KEY to being successful in our manifesting.

Sounds weird, but it is all about MIND CONTROL.

So enjoy this lovely video by Deepak Chopra. Let me know what you think of it by commenting below.

Enjoy!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com

PS. There is another week or so for the special I’m offering. Purchase my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life and receive a free pass to download all the 2009 Law of Attraction in Love Teleseminar Series (value $240) or purchase both the eBook and the Law of Attraction Home Study Course and get a FREE 30-min private coaching session from me as well (value $175)! And 50% of profits are donated to Haiti Relief. Hurry before this special ends!

The Olympics and the Law of Attraction

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:48:00 +0000

So what does the Olympics have to do with YOU and your life? and with the Law of Attraction?

Plenty.

If you watched the Olympics on television, maybe you caught what I'm about to tell you, or maybe you didn't. And if you didn't watch the Olympics at all, I'll give you a summary of what you need to know to take advantage of the "lessons" that I noted.

After you read this, maybe you'll appreciate more of how Energy and the Law of Attraction plays in our lives each and every day. Synchronicity is increasing exponentially in my life experience. It is in yours too, but are you aware of it? As we end a world age (2012) and enter a new one, this is to be expected.

OK, so here's a little background. Biologist and author, Rupert Sheldrake is best known for his theory of morphogenic fields (M-fields) and morphic resonance. M-fields are invisible organizing patterns that act like energy templates to establish forms (i.e. manifesting into reality) on various levels of life. For example when Sir Roger Bannister broke the four-minute mile in running, he created a new M-field. The belief system prior to that momentus event was that the four-minute mile was not "humanly possible". After he broke it, suddenly many runners were able to run sub-four-minute miles!

Something very similar happened at the 2010 Olympics. The hosting country, Canada, where I grew up, had never won an Olympic Gold medal on home soil. Not in Montreal in 1976, not in Calgary in 1988. In fact, my brother, who lives in Canada, chuckled when he told me that one of the Canadian comedy channels did a parody of a well-known Canadian commercial intended to inspire Patriotism whereby the motto was "We're proud of the Olympic heritage of Canadian Bronze medals".

Thus there was a lot of "hype" about how desperate Canada was for a gold medal. The energy "field" prior to this Olympics was one in which Canada struggled, choked and just couldn't get the job done to win a single Gold on home soil. But a major shift occurred soon after the games began. Canadian mogul skiier, Alexandre Bilodeau won Canada's first Gold of the Vancouver games.

(c) http://www.radio-canada.ca

Suddenly, it seemed that Bilodeau's victory created a new energy field, a new M-field, i.e. the template for other Canadians to win Gold as well. And win they did! Fourteen Gold medals in fact, more than any other country EVER in the history of the Winter Olympics! It is as if all the other Canadian athletes suddenly believed they too could win Gold.

And I believe that it was synchronistic that the CTV television channel that sold Olympic merchandise in Canada created their line of Vancouver 2010 clothing sporting the single-word logo, "Believe".

That's what I'm suggesting that YOU do. Believe. Once you've strived to do what in your mind was "impossible" previously, you'll create a new M-field for yourself (and others) and suddenly, what was so difficult before, will no longer be so. If you've struggled in relationship after relationship with patterns repeating itself, all it means is that you need to shift up to a new M-field, a new level of consciousness in order to break the cycle. The Law of Attraction states that whatever field of energy you are resonating predominantly is what you'll attract back to you.

Believe in yourself, in the goodness of others and in the future of this planet. When you spend energy becoming more conscious and coming closer to your True Divine Self, you can literally "jump" up to a higher energy field. But I have to be honest with you...few people ever make the jump. They often don't know there is even such a thing.

But now you know. (for more information on the subject of consciousness energy levels, refer to David Hawkins' book, Power vs. Force)

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When you watch the Olympics you cannot help but be moved and inspired. Whether it be mourning the loss of the luge athlete from the Republic of Georgia or the courage of the Canadian figure skater who lost her mother days before her event and skated to a bronze medal finish, or the success of athletes who had experience severe disappointment four or eight years ago only to taste the sweetness of success after not giving up, we feel all of it - it is part of our consciousness (whether you watched the Olympics or not).

By believing in yourself, you may be the one to create a new "M-field" for the rest of us to follow. Maybe you already have. It only takes a few people of higher consciousness to elevate the consciousness of a nation. When you believe in yourself and what you can co-create in this world for happiness and joy, you help everyone on this planet.

Belief underlies all manifestation. It is the core of the Law of Attraction. I believe in you.

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. Let me know what you think about this by commenting on my BLOG
P.P.S. Because I've been so enthralled with following the Olympics, I haven't reminded you about the "LOVE" Special which I'm extending into the middle of March:

Purchase my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life and receive a free pass to download all the 2009 Law of Attraction in Love Teleseminar Series (value $240) or purchase both the eBook and the Law of Attraction Home Study Course and get a FREE 30-min private coaching session from me as well (value $175)! And 50% of profits are donated to Haiti Relief.

Attracting Love By Reprogramming Your Subconscious Mind

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 05:13:00 +0000

For this Monday's radio show, I will be interviewing Eldon Taylor about his patented subliminal technology that helps to rewire the subconscious mind in thinking positive rather than negative thoughts. I will be asking him to describe how this technology can help you attract the ideal partner of your dreams.

For the past 30 years, Eldon Taylor has researched the power of the mind. He has earned doctoral degrees in psychology and metaphysics and his work has been featured on numerous radio and televisions shows as well in documentaries. He is a Fellow in the American Psychotherapy Association (APA) and a Diplomat in The Academy of Certified Chaplains. He has presented seminars and workshops around the country and across the globe.

The cornerstones to Eldon’s work are quite simple and have remained constant over the 30 years that he has publicly shared them. He refers to them as the four corners of success: forgiveness, gratitude, self-responsibility and service. In his latest books, Choices and Illusions and Mind Programming, Eldon shares his own story as he integrates it with his work and research. He casts a bright light on how and why we have self-imposed limitations and false self-images, and demonstrates how we can retrain the mind and leave negative self-sabotaging, self-limiting patterns in the past. Moreover, he shows us how we can change our lives today! Indeed, he makes the process of change so simple and clear that his readers and listeners can enjoy happier, healthier lives almost immediately—without having to buy anything.

Here are the details:

Monday February 22, 2010 at 12 noon EST

www.timezoneconverter.com

www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren

Call in number: 347-945-6313

Hit "1" if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

Love in 90 Days: Interview with Dr. Diana Kirschner

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 09:55:00 +0000

Single women everywhere are looking for love, and asking the same questions over and over: “Why hasn’t he called?” “Why am I attracted to the wrong guys?” “Should I date him or dump him?” Psychologist Dr. Diana Kirschner helps women answer these questions once and for all in her bestselling book, Love In 90 Days.

According to Dr. Diana, one of the biggest reasons many women don’t find true love is they should have dumped the DUD (Definitely Unworkable Dude) they’ve been dating a long time ago!

How do you know whether to DUMP HIM or KEEP DATING HIM? This Monday, Dr. Diana can share the top 16 most popular DATING GAMES MEN PLAY (from the brand new chapter in the book) and help you decide whether his behavior is worth putting up with and how to successfully keep DATING HIM OR whether it’s time to DUMP HIM once and for all and find the love you deserve!

Diana Kirschner Ph.D.'s bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days, is the basis for her PBS Special. It’s just out in paperback with a new chapter on Dating Games Men Play. In January, 2009 Fox's Morning Show issued an official challenge to Dr. Diana: Could she really help someone to find love in just 90 days? Over 13 consecutive weeks Fox viewers watched and ratings hit an all-time high, as Dr. Diana helped dating-challenged Amelia go from zero dates to having 12 great prospects to a dramatic finale where a beaming Amelia found the One.

Dr. Diana is a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show and has appeared on: Oprah & Access Hollywood. She has been quoted as a love expert in The New York Times, USA Today, Cosmopolitan & People magazines. Her new Ultimate Secrets to Finding the Love You Want text message program is now available by texting “love” to 484848. Dr. Diana has hundreds of dollars in free bonus gifts for the first 500 who order the Love in 90 Days paperback or her Ultimate Secrets text message program at www.lovein90days.com

Here are the details for the show:

Monday February 15 at 12 noon EST

www.timezoneconverter.com

www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren

Call in number: 347-945-6313

Hit "1" if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

If He's Not The One, Who Is? - Interview with Lisa Steadman

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 12:04:00 +0000

For the second time, we have relationship journalist Lisa Steadman joining us tomorrow on our LOAIL radio show.

“Is he Mr. Next or Mr. Right?” This is one of the thought-provoking questions posed in her latest book, “If He’s Not the One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right” This book is a sequel to Steadman’s previous best seller, “It’s a Breakup, Not a Breakdown,” which she wrote after enduring a heart wrenching breakup herself five years ago.

In the book, Steadman includes exercises and quizzes to assist the reader in learning from her past and getting clear about her life, leading up to the million dollar question: “Is he Mr. Next or Mr. Right?” The book also details common pitfalls women fall prey to in relationships, how to get unstuck, types of men to steer clear of, and practical advice on how to date, all delivered with Steadman’s light, humorous style. After getting back out there and dating, Steadman warns against having a scarcity mentality and projecting all of your expectations onto one person. She recommends you ask yourself if the man you are dating meets your needs and if he shares your values and long-term goals. If the answer is no, get out immediately or set a deadline to do so.

Join us tomorrow for an exciting discussion!

Here are the details:

Monday February 8, 2010 at 12 noon EST

www.timezoneconverter.com

www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren

Call in number: 347-945-6313

Hit "1" if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

“Your chance at love didn’t go out the door when your ex did,” says Steadman. “I wrote this book to help women reinvent themselves after a breakup and give them the tools to get out there and attract Mr. Next…and eventually Mr. Right.”

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

Attracting More Money

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 12:27:00 +0000

Dear Dr. Karen,

Money is energy, and I emanate my own energy from within and attract to me what is compatible to my energy frequency, how can I attract money to me so that I don’t end up working myself to the bone only to end up barely above water when I’m an old man?

Kelvin

Dear Kelvin,

You are correct in saying that money is energy and that in order to attract money, you must radiate the “ideal” money-coherent frequency. So the good news is that you already UNDERSTAND the concept of what must happen in order to attract money into your life.

The seven steps of manifesting that I teach in my eBook and my Home Study Course are the same whether you are manifesting love in your life or more money. What I’ve found is that step number 5, which deals with Obstacles, can be the most stubborn when it comes to money.

Many of us grew up with negative money beliefs, some of which we are not even aware of. The subconscious negative beliefs about money and wealth are the MAIN reasons that hamper people from consciously using the Law of Attraction to attract more money. In other words, it isn’t about how much schooling you received, whether you are smart enough or even if you work hard enough. It boils down to your beliefs!

There is a saying amongst Law of Attraction teachers that goes something like this: Your income will be the average of the income of the five closest people you hang out with. Now I’m not saying to go out today and ditch your “poor” friends, but seriously, unless you make an effort to learn to get to know and emulate powerful, enlightened wealthy people, your chances of money success is next to nil!

I’ll share with you what I’ve found most helpful for myself. First is a free teleseminar about your money beliefs and how they affect your success:

www.secretstomoney.info

Next is a list of books I recommend that you start devouring immediately!

Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, T. Harv Eker
Millionaire Maker, Loral Langemeier
Cash Machine for Life, Loral Langemeier
The Four Hour Work Week, Tim Ferris
Rich Dad, Poor Dad, Robert Kiyosaki
Put More Cash in Your Pocket, Loral Langemeier
Who Do You Think You Are? Keith Leon

Here’s some general pointers:

You need to learn to take interest in managing money, even if you have to fake it initially. The Universe will not give you MORE until you have demonstrated that you can handle more.
Clarity breeds better intentions. If you don’t know what your “profit-loss” numbers are on a monthly basis, start doing this today. It isn’t hard (check out Millionaire Maker for instructions)
Money does not come into chaos.
If you don’t good reasons for the amount of money you want to attract, you won’t get it. So become clear on what you wish to DO with the money and how much it will actually cost.
The people who get paid the most usually help the most people.
Change your money language.

Notice what you said above: so that I don’t end up working myself to the bone only to end up barely above water when I’m an old man?

That sentence is chock full of old beliefs and attitudes that no longer serve your higher purpose. Can you see that now? What I’m hearing is the belief that one must work HARD (to the bone even!) for a LONG time to earn lots of money. The “barely above water” is a really strong SCARCITY phrase and I encourage you to get rid of this type of language from your vocabulary starting right now.

There are big No-No phrases if you’re using the Law of Attraction to attract more money:

We can’t afford it (if you say it, it will be true for you)
That’s too expensive (scarcity energy)
Must be nice! (to be able to afford such-and-such…envy energy)
Money doesn’t grow trees (of course it does…it is made of paper isn’t it?)
I just want enough to be comfortable (comfort is highly overrated and not a single wealthy person got there by being comfortable!)
Materialism is bad (no it isn’t, it just depends on your intentions)
Money is the root of all evil (money is just energy remember?)

Here are positive things to do:

When you see someone who seems wealthy, appreciate them instead of being envious – and tell yourself, if they can do it, so can I
Appreciate beautiful material things, even if you don’t plan on buying them. Anti-materialism will keep you poor for sure!
Grow out of your comfort zone and get some professional coaching to help you find out what your passions are and how you can make money from them.

Learning how to become wealthy requires intensive but FUN study. You’ll learn to use your GIFTS in a way that serves as many people as possible. It is part of your Life Mission!

I believe in you.

Dr. Karen Kan

PS:

February is LOVE month, so I’d like to share a valuable offer. As most of you know, Haiti and those that lost loved-ones have been on our minds and in our prayers since the earthquake in January. For the month of February, I’m donating 50% of the profits from my eBook and Law of Attraction Home Study Course sales to Haiti.

Please help me in giving to them (as well as giving to yourself)! Here are the links:

Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook

Law of Attraction in Love Home Study Course

Thank you in advance!

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

Monday’s Radio Show: How to Create a Magical Relationship

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 18:30:00 +0000

Join me for Monday's Law of Attraction in Love Radio Show: How to Create a Magical Relationship. I'm interviewing a fantastic woman who I met at a personal development training recently. Her name is Carele Belanger (pronounced the French way for all you folks from France and Canada!)

After many courses in the holistics field, in 2005 Carele Belanger earned her certificate as Master Practictioner NLP, (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). As an Achievement Coach, she guides her female clients to totally love themselves, stand up for themselves and to embody their Goddess within.

She believes that YOU can manifest a magical relationship. And she's going to help you do just that!

Carele's mission is to enlighten and empower women so they can be wealthy in all parts of their life. From that mission was born the Enlightened-Women website, the only Resources Website for women. www.enlightened-women.com

During the show, she'll teach you how to:

- Create the person you want to attract (in detail)
- Understand the subtleties of compromise and self-respect
- How love relationships can be Magical!

We look forward to having you call in and ask live questions during the show! Here's how:

Monday January 4th at 12PM noon (www.timezoneconverter.com)
Listen via web: www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren
Call in live: 347-945-6313 and dial "1" to put your hand up so I can see that you wish to ask a question.

And if you can't listen in at noon, you can always download the archived show free of charge on blog talk radio! Enjoy!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com

Why Am I attracting things I don't want?!

noreply@blogger.com (Karen Kan, MD) — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 14:51:00 +0000

After some deliberation of what's been "going on" in the world lately, I decided to defer this month's teleseminar topic regarding Sexual Polarity until 2010. Instead, the topic will be:

Why Am I Attracting Things I Don’t Want? Advanced Law of Attraction

I don't know if you've noticed, but there has been some chaotic energy running around lately. Lots of people getting sick, hospitalized, dying...intense weather patterns around the world. Last week I had a young patient burst out in tears for no reason in my office and later at our dance class, another child cried and whined uncharacteristically. My own honey had an emotional "blow-up" at the rink and several friends were having intense PMS.

Did you feel it?

Guess what? If you did, maybe you thought it was "all you". Well, it isn't. We're all connected remember? I realized a couple years ago that whenever a big typhoon or earthquake hit anywhere in the world, I'd become uncharacteristically "sleepy-tired" for days. Usually I couldn't pin point the cause until some newsflash over the internet caught my eye as I was internet surfing for unrelated information.

So this week's teleseminar is going to talk all about this kind of stuff. If you've had questions like:

I'm making my Law of Attraction intentions and it seems like the opposite to what I want is happening?
I'm doing everything I'm supposed to according to what I've read on the Law of Attraction, but nothing is working!
How come my life became a "disaster" after just making one intention/wish?
When things I don't want "appear" in my life, does that mean I did something wrong? or does it mean I should change my direction?
When obstacles appear that block what I want, what should I do? Does it mean what I want is not good for me?
If we attract everything in our lives, how can you say an innocent baby attracted sexual abuse?

Please join me for the last Law of Attraction teleseminar of the year! The details are below:

Thursday December 17, 2009

7:30PM – 8:25PM EST/EDT www.timezoneconverter.com

Conference Call number 712-432-3900

Conference Access Code 7677512#

If you can't make it, you can access the recording free of charge if you are a MEMBER of Law of Attraction in Love.

Please join me Thursday! I'll be making a special offer at the end, so you don't want to miss it. First come first serve!

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan