Why Am I attracting things I don't want?!

After some deliberation of what's been "going on" in the world lately, I decided to defer this month's teleseminar topic regarding Sexual Polarity until 2010. Instead, the topic will be:



Why Am I Attracting Things I Don’t Want? Advanced Law of Attraction



I don't know if you've noticed, but there has been some chaotic energy running around lately. Lots of people getting sick, hospitalized, dying...intense weather patterns around the world. Last week I had a young patient burst out in tears for no reason in my office and later at our dance class, another child cried and whined uncharacteristically. My own honey had an emotional "blow-up" at the rink and several friends were having intense PMS.



Did you feel it?



Guess what? If you did, maybe you thought it was "all you". Well, it isn't. We're all connected remember? I realized a couple years ago that whenever a big typhoon or earthquake hit anywhere in the world, I'd become uncharacteristically "sleepy-tired" for days. Usually I couldn't pin point the cause until some newsflash over the internet caught my eye as I was internet surfing for unrelated information.



So this week's teleseminar is going to talk all about this kind of stuff. If you've had questions like:

• I'm making my Law of Attraction intentions and it seems like the opposite to what I want is happening?
• I'm doing everything I'm supposed to according to what I've read on the Law of Attraction, but nothing is working!
• How come my life became a "disaster" after just making one intention/wish?
• When things I don't want "appear" in my life, does that mean I did something wrong? or does it mean I should change my direction?
• When obstacles appear that block what I want, what should I do? Does it mean what I want is not good for me?
• If we attract everything in our lives, how can you say an innocent baby attracted sexual abuse?

Please join me for the last Law of Attraction teleseminar of the year! The details are below:



Thursday December 17, 2009

7:30PM – 8:25PM EST/EDT www.timezoneconverter.com

Conference Call number 712-432-3900

Conference Access Code 7677512#



If you can't make it, you can access the recording free of charge if you are a MEMBER of Law of Attraction in Love.



Please join me Thursday! I'll be making a special offer at the end, so you don't want to miss it. First come first serve!



Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan

www.lawofattractioninlove.com

Dear Dr. Karen: How Do I Win Her Love?

Dear Dr. Karen:

I am Joseph from Aberdeen UK. I have a friend for over 5 years now in Nigeria. And I left the country last year 2008. She has values, beliefs and desirable qualities I require in a woman. She doesn’t really want to show me she cares all these years. I have let her know that I love her and also spoken to her about the future. Please I need a dating advice from you. I really want to win her love. Many thanks.

Regards

Joseph

Dear Joseph:

Thanks for writing. Did you say years?

Let me get this straight. You’ve been in love with this woman for years, have told her that you love her and shared with her your desires for your future together and she doesn’t really want to show you she cares all these years?

Well, it is great that she has values, beliefs and desirable qualities you resonate with. That’s a good start. But after being friends for years, don’t you think you’ve waited a long time to have your affections reciprocated? And now you live thousands of miles away!

I’ve heard of a woman playing hard to get, but I’m not getting any sense from you that she is even trying to vie for your attentions. So my question to you is, what exactly are you looking for from this woman? And how can this be the woman you desire if she does not desire you? Years is long enough for her to figure it out don’t you think?

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Well, it’s not really a secret, but many people don’t realize this: that the world is changing faster and faster. And what that means for you is that years is definitely TOO long not to move forward with your life! That’s not to say that learning dating skills won’t be helpful. And learning to understand women is even more helpful.

Here’s what I know. There is a woman (or more than one) out “there” who can’t wait to be with you. Someone who adores you just as you adore her. You don’t have to change yourself just so she will love you. She will love you as you are. Believe it. Feel it – and it will be yours.

You deserve it.

Just because you love this woman you’ve set your sights on doesn’t mean you can’t love another! Instead, use the love you feel to create and attract an even better match. Let go emotionally of being with THIS particular woman. In fact, I’d encourage you to ask her point blank whether she is romantically interested in you or not, and to let her know that it is OK if she isn’t because you’ll learn to move on. You just need to know the truth. Women have a way of not telling the truth because they don’t want to hurt your feelings.

If you can show her that you are “man” (i.e. strong) enough to take the truth, you’ll get it. She needs to know you won’t crumble. And it’s about time that you free yourself of anything and anyone who would slow your growth into the love you desire.

Change is happening much faster in our world now. You cannot “afford” to keep waiting for your life to happen. You deserve to experience life and love like never before.

For your growth and education, I’d highly recommend that you read books by David Deida: www.deida.info especially, The Way of the Superior Man, which you can find in my Law of Attraction in Love Bookstore. When you start to resonate at your most enlightened masculine self, you’d be AMAZED at the women (and the quality of women) you attract! Best to you Joseph!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com