Dear Secret Sage,
I am a girl of 26 year, with a short height(5ft) and want to gain at least 5 inches more. I know nothing is impossible but still, can I become tall?
I have never been attracted to any man till now but the last week and for the first time in my life I attended a workshop and the coach was a person having all the qualities that I wished to have in my life partner. Can I ever attract this person as i have started loving him a lot.
I need your help dear, please tell whether law of attraction can bring these two things in my life? Please help.
Thanks
Krishna
Dear Krishna,
The Universe needs to know your BIG WHY. What I mean is, you need to have a big reason why you want the things you do sometimes in order to harness the law of attraction. Why do you want to be 5 inches taller? What does this have to do with attracting a partner? Where did you learn that this is an obstacle to love?
If you think you need to grow taller in order to attract your dream partner, then you are not intentionally using the Law of Attraction to it's greatest power. Let me as you this: Do you want to be taller so you feel more attractive to yourself? or do you want to be taller because you think you'll be able to attract someone else better that way?
My sense is that what you TRULY want is not the height, but a loving compatible partner who loves you completely and totally for who you are, regardless of your height. Would you agree?
So if you had the choice: more height or the perfect loving partner, which is more important? Probably the latter, I hope.
As for your workshop facilitator, I can understand your attraction to him. It happens all the time that students fall for the instructor. They are larger than life when they are teaching. I know I am. We are at our best. The fact that he is the first person you've ever been attracted to shows you the kind of energy you are attracted to. That's helpful.
Now, in order to attract someone LIKE this person (you cannot force that person to love you), YOU need to grow to be AS BIG energetically as they are. For example, if they radiate confidence and sex appeal, you must too in order to attract the same. If they are compassionate and self-loving, you must be the same to attract him. Make sense? Your partner can't be what you are missing. You will always attract a similar vibration with the law of attraction. That's why famous people often attract other famous people. They have the same vibrational mindset.
When you can be as attractive and confident as that teacher in the workshop, then you will attract that same energy to yourself and it will be simple. The process of growing yourself bigger isn't hard, but it takes conscious effort and guidance. If it sounds depressing or overwhelming to you, I suggest you get some relationship coaching, either with myself or someone else qualified.
Blessings,
The Secret Sage
Sunday, April 12, 2009
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