Dear Secret Sage:
A man on "The Secret" dvd talked to one of the narrators about dating women and how he was having trouble with it... So I ask how can you create the kind of dating life you want if you don't want a single partner right now?
Harold
Dear Harold:
It is perfectly OK to want to date several people at once. It all depends on your intentions. So you need to be very clear on your intentions. Are you wanting to stay "single" for now and enjoy the dating life, getting to know a lot of wonderful people? Or are you wishing to get a lot of relationship experience to find out what it is you really want in your love life? Or are you wanting varied sexual expeiences without a long-term monogamous commitment?
Whatever your intentions are, you need to own up to YOUR truth. There is no absolutely right or wrong, despite what societal "norms" may be.
For your dating life to work out well, what you want is to be upfront and honest with your potential dates about your intentions. In other words, just because you find someone attractive, you wouldn't date him/her if they've made it clear that they are looking for a monogamous relationship.
If you can be "clear" then the law of attraction will help you attract exactly those people who resonate with what you want to. The trick is being honest and clear and recognizing if you have emotional blocks to accepting what you truly want (rather what you think you should want).
For additional dating advice (if you are dating women) would be www.doubleyourdating.com
Also, please check out my Law of Attraction in Love website with valuable information on relationships and manifesting your ideal love partner(s).
Blessings,
The Secret Sage
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