Can the Law of Attraction Give Me a Second Chance with Romance?

Dear Secret Sage, I dated this girl and she became "unattracted" to my personality. It all went downhill after that. How can I show her that I've changed and possibly get a second chance with her? Mike Dear Mike, The "secret" with using the law of attraction to create a fantastic romance is to intend the kind of relationship you want and then let the Universe bring you the ideal person to fulfill your wishes. My guess is that even though this woman didn't like your personality, there is someone "out there" who does. You shouldn't need to change your personality to please another person. Of course, it is great to be open to feedback, but you need to feel you are "enough". Obviously, you are more attracted to her than she is to you. Ideally, you want to ask the Universe to bring you someone who is equally attracted to you. I've had plenty of relationships where the attraction is unbalanced. The good news in my experience is this: if you are willing to let go of this relationship having to be THE ONE, and be open to a BETTER one, then you'll give the Universe the required SPACE to fulfill your wishes. Although it seems counterintuitive, your best bet at another opportunity with this woman (just to see truly if it is a fit) is to let her know that you respect and honor her and wish her well. More importantly, thank her for the opportunity you had to spend time with her. And then let it drop. If she changes her mind, she'll call you. You don't even have to hint at it. Just let go of YOUR attachment to ever hearing from her again. If it is meant to be, it will happen. That is REALLY how it works. We can't make another person love us, no matter how we think we have to change to please them. Those types of relationships never last, or at least, are not very rewarding. It would be much better to feel really good about yourself and let the Universe help bring that ideal person to you. If you haven't already, check out my downloable book, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life at www.lawofattractioninlove.com Blessings, The Secret Sage

Law of Attraction and Winning the Lottery...

Dear Secret Sage, how can I use the law of attraction to win the lottery? Jeffrey Dear Jeffrey, I have covered this question extensively in the past, so I welcome you to read my entries under the money page at www.understandingthelawofattraction.com. Most importantly, as I said to Julie-Ann, above, you need to have a very good REASON for what you want. Most people who want more money want it because they want to live their dreams. Others want that AND they want to be able to give away more money to those in need. So the first thing you need to do is to be CLEAR on WHY you need the money and WHY you need as much as you want (millions?). Here is the story of the grand majority of lottery winners: 1. They win millions of dollars. They think all their problems have vanished. 2. By 18 months, most have returned to their previous state of wealth/poverty and many have become bankrupt for the first time. If this is what winning the lottery gives you, and statistics show that is the case, do you still want to win the lottery? Why do you think these winners lost their money? The reason is because they never changed their mindset and habits from "poor" or "middle class" to WEALTHY. You actually need to change your financial "blueprint" from "poor" to "wealthy" in order to build and MAINTAIN wealth! You'll know what your financial blueprint is very easily. Just look at your bank account statements! Look at your net worth! And if you don't know how to calculate net worth, find out how. ALL wealthy people I know who grew their riches on their own understand how to calculate net worth. Wealthy people think differently from poor and middle class people. I highly recommend that you commit to learning how wealthy people think and act. Purchase the book Secrets of the Millioniare Mind by T. Harv Eker and go to his free three-day millioniare mind intensive (ambassador number 232364). I loved that course. It changed my life dramatically by changing my mindset. The Universe is waiting for you to show it that you mean BUSINESS! That you are willing to do what it takes to get what you want. It isn't as hard as it seems. Blessings, The Secret Sage

Using the Law of Attraction to Lose Weight

Dear Secret Sage, how can I use the Law of Attraction to lose weight? Sarah Dear Sarah, first of all, you need to remove the words "lose weight" from your mindset. If you must use the word "weight" at least use the term "weight releasing". Why? Well, when you lose something, what do you tend to want to do? You want to find it again! Even better would be the use of the words, "slim and healthy", "ideal weight", "ideal body shape" etc. What you think about you bring about, so if you are thinking "weight", you will bring about more weight! If you are thinking "lose weight" you will bring about more opportunities to "lose weight"! After you've changed your languaging, then what I'd like you to do it to stop looking on the scale. At least for now. Instead, focus on the image of how you want to look and how it would feel in your body. To help, you might want to put a nice new outfit hung up where you can see it everyday that you will fit into. Put up pictures of you at your ideal weight (if you have any) all over your house and if you don't have any, put up photos of women's bodies you admire. I did this once with a picture of a woman's abdominal area. I had no idea how I was going to manifest a nice set of abdominal muscles like that, but "what the heck" I thought and put it on my vision board. Soon after, my boyfriend bought a workout program. He challenged me to do it with him. At first I wasn't interested, but being competitive in my personality, I couldn't help myself and began doing the ABRIPPER X DVD with him. I wanted to show him that my Pilates background made it easier for me than for him. Ha! Long story short, I began developing those ABS I wanted afterall and had fun doing it! Although my abs are not "six pack" yet, they are very strong and I like how they look! The Universe works in mysterious ways. Be open to opportunities that come your way soon after you set your intention. When you see others who are slim, instead of being envious, practice admiring them and saying to yourself, "if they can be slim, so can I!" Make sure your emotions are aligned with what you want. If you want to be slim and healthy, admire and congratulate people who are! Rejoice in their success, knowing that soon, it will be yours too. Blessings, The Secret Sage

Manifesting a Dream Career

Dear Secret Sage, I would like to manifest 1. successful acting career 2. Having my own Home in America 3. meeting a American actor that I admire.4. Money but thats something that would fall into place if I was to become a actor. If it is possible whats the right way to go about manifesting them? Thanking you deeply. Julie-Ann Dear Julie-Ann: One of the most important elements in manifesting is having passion for dreams. In order for you to manifest a successful acting career, it must be imperative that you love acting! Not everyone who wishes for a career really enjoys their career. Sometimes, they want it so that they can be famous and adored. Notice the difference. It is really important that you absolutely LOVE what you do. Why? Because it is much easier to manifest! Success takes a lot of energy and persistence, and yet, it can be incredibly fun in the process. You CAN be successful, but you have to be willing to be open to new mindsets and to doing whatever it takes to get what you want. One important element in harnessing the law of attraction to manfiest what you want is that you must provide the Universe with good REASONS why you want what you want. There are no "right" or "wrong" reasons, but your reasons must be real and authentic and thus send a CLEAR signal to the Universe to support you. For example, what are your reasons for wanting a successful acting career? to experience enjoying what you love the most and at the same time earning lots of money so you can live a fantastic lifestyle? that's a clear reason. If you answered "to be famous" that might not be clear enough. Why? what does fame give you? you need to be more specific. If you are looking for being truly loved for who you are, then acting may not be the best route to give that to you. See what I mean? Same goes for wanting to meet an American actor you admire. Why do you want to meet him/her? to help you in your acting career? to have a romantic relationship with? to say that you know someone famous? You need to really be CLEAR on the benefits of what you want and why you want it. For example, if you want to be a millionaire, wanting more money is not enough. You need to tell The Universe WHY you need to money. What exactly are you going to do with it? My coach, Keith Leon, showed me a Mind Mapping tool that outlined exactly how much money you'd need for the dream lifestyle you wish to live. It "tells" the Universe why you need it. Only then, will you get it. In summary, the first step is to be absolutely CLEAR as to the reasons you want what you want and how it will benefit you (or others), The second step is to pretend with all the cells in your body that your wish has come true. Daily, meditate on the scene of having the dream career and home you desire. Be happy imagining this dream with all the cells of your body. This takes practice and commitment. The third step is to "ACT AS IF" your dream is about to manifest. In others words, it means doing what actors must do. It may mean volunteering for acting spots at your local television station, being in community plays. On the other hand, it may mean moving to Los Angeles and joining acting classes or volunteering as an assistant to someone in the acting business. Acting is said to be a tough business to get into. I say, "it depends" on who you are. I know of a friend and his brother. My friend moved to LA and wanted to act badly. His brother did the same. The two had markedly different experiences. My friend was terrible at marketing himself, and spent most of his day working at a video store hoping for auditions to show up on his doorstep. His brother, on the other hand, put up a website, promoted himself with professional photos, landed every two-bit small part on every show he could get his hands on, and has been on national T.V. and movies countless times. Is is famous? no, not yet, but he ACTED AS IF and has made a ton of contacts. His personality and his mindset has made him successful. Let's just say, he doesn't have to work at the video store to pay his rent. My friend hated L.A.His brother, on the other hand, loves it. See the difference? Blessings to you Julie-Ann! The Secret Sage