Can the Law of Attraction Give Me a Second Chance with Romance?

Dear Secret Sage, I dated this girl and she became "unattracted" to my personality. It all went downhill after that. How can I show her that I've changed and possibly get a second chance with her? Mike Dear Mike, The "secret" with using the law of attraction to create a fantastic romance is to intend the kind of relationship you want and then let the Universe bring you the ideal person to fulfill your wishes. My guess is that even though this woman didn't like your personality, there is someone "out there" who does. You shouldn't need to change your personality to please another person. Of course, it is great to be open to feedback, but you need to feel you are "enough". Obviously, you are more attracted to her than she is to you. Ideally, you want to ask the Universe to bring you someone who is equally attracted to you. I've had plenty of relationships where the attraction is unbalanced. The good news in my experience is this: if you are willing to let go of this relationship having to be THE ONE, and be open to a BETTER one, then you'll give the Universe the required SPACE to fulfill your wishes. Although it seems counterintuitive, your best bet at another opportunity with this woman (just to see truly if it is a fit) is to let her know that you respect and honor her and wish her well. More importantly, thank her for the opportunity you had to spend time with her. And then let it drop. If she changes her mind, she'll call you. You don't even have to hint at it. Just let go of YOUR attachment to ever hearing from her again. If it is meant to be, it will happen. That is REALLY how it works. We can't make another person love us, no matter how we think we have to change to please them. Those types of relationships never last, or at least, are not very rewarding. It would be much better to feel really good about yourself and let the Universe help bring that ideal person to you. If you haven't already, check out my downloable book, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life at www.lawofattractioninlove.com Blessings, The Secret Sage