If He's Not The One, Who Is? - Interview with Lisa Steadman

For the second time, we have relationship journalist Lisa Steadman joining us tomorrow on our LOAIL radio show.



“Is he Mr. Next or Mr. Right?” This is one of the thought-provoking questions posed in her latest book, “If He’s Not the One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right” This book is a sequel to Steadman’s previous best seller, “It’s a Breakup, Not a Breakdown,” which she wrote after enduring a heart wrenching breakup herself five years ago.



In the book, Steadman includes exercises and quizzes to assist the reader in learning from her past and getting clear about her life, leading up to the million dollar question: “Is he Mr. Next or Mr. Right?” The book also details common pitfalls women fall prey to in relationships, how to get unstuck, types of men to steer clear of, and practical advice on how to date, all delivered with Steadman’s light, humorous style. After getting back out there and dating, Steadman warns against having a scarcity mentality and projecting all of your expectations onto one person. She recommends you ask yourself if the man you are dating meets your needs and if he shares your values and long-term goals. If the answer is no, get out immediately or set a deadline to do so.



Join us tomorrow for an exciting discussion!



Here are the details:


Monday February 8, 2010 at 12 noon EST

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www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren

Call in number: 347-945-6313

Hit "1" if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

“Your chance at love didn’t go out the door when your ex did,” says Steadman. “I wrote this book to help women reinvent themselves after a breakup and give them the tools to get out there and attract Mr. Next…and eventually Mr. Right.”



Blessings,


Dr. Karen

Attracting More Money

Dear Dr. Karen,

Money is energy, and I emanate my own energy from within and attract to me what is compatible to my energy frequency, how can I attract money to me so that I don’t end up working myself to the bone only to end up barely above water when I’m an old man?



Kelvin

Dear Kelvin,

You are correct in saying that money is energy and that in order to attract money, you must radiate the “ideal” money-coherent frequency. So the good news is that you already UNDERSTAND the concept of what must happen in order to attract money into your life.

The seven steps of manifesting that I teach in my eBook and my Home Study Course are the same whether you are manifesting love in your life or more money. What I’ve found is that step number 5, which deals with Obstacles, can be the most stubborn when it comes to money.

Many of us grew up with negative money beliefs, some of which we are not even aware of. The subconscious negative beliefs about money and wealth are the MAIN reasons that hamper people from consciously using the Law of Attraction to attract more money. In other words, it isn’t about how much schooling you received, whether you are smart enough or even if you work hard enough. It boils down to your beliefs!

There is a saying amongst Law of Attraction teachers that goes something like this: Your income will be the average of the income of the five closest people you hang out with. Now I’m not saying to go out today and ditch your “poor” friends, but seriously, unless you make an effort to learn to get to know and emulate powerful, enlightened wealthy people, your chances of money success is next to nil!

I’ll share with you what I’ve found most helpful for myself. First is a free teleseminar about your money beliefs and how they affect your success:

www.secretstomoney.info

Next is a list of books I recommend that you start devouring immediately!

• Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, T. Harv Eker
• Millionaire Maker, Loral Langemeier
• Cash Machine for Life, Loral Langemeier
• The Four Hour Work Week, Tim Ferris
• Rich Dad, Poor Dad, Robert Kiyosaki
• Put More Cash in Your Pocket, Loral Langemeier
• Who Do You Think You Are? Keith Leon

Here’s some general pointers:

• You need to learn to take interest in managing money, even if you have to fake it initially. The Universe will not give you MORE until you have demonstrated that you can handle more.
• Clarity breeds better intentions. If you don’t know what your “profit-loss” numbers are on a monthly basis, start doing this today. It isn’t hard (check out Millionaire Maker for instructions)
• Money does not come into chaos.
• If you don’t good reasons for the amount of money you want to attract, you won’t get it. So become clear on what you wish to DO with the money and how much it will actually cost.
• The people who get paid the most usually help the most people.
• Change your money language.

Notice what you said above: so that I don’t end up working myself to the bone only to end up barely above water when I’m an old man?



That sentence is chock full of old beliefs and attitudes that no longer serve your higher purpose. Can you see that now? What I’m hearing is the belief that one must work HARD (to the bone even!) for a LONG time to earn lots of money. The “barely above water” is a really strong SCARCITY phrase and I encourage you to get rid of this type of language from your vocabulary starting right now.

There are big No-No phrases if you’re using the Law of Attraction to attract more money:

• We can’t afford it (if you say it, it will be true for you)
• That’s too expensive (scarcity energy)
• Must be nice! (to be able to afford such-and-such…envy energy)
• Money doesn’t grow trees (of course it does…it is made of paper isn’t it?)
• I just want enough to be comfortable (comfort is highly overrated and not a single wealthy person got there by being comfortable!)
• Materialism is bad (no it isn’t, it just depends on your intentions)
• Money is the root of all evil (money is just energy remember?)

Here are positive things to do:

• When you see someone who seems wealthy, appreciate them instead of being envious – and tell yourself, if they can do it, so can I
• Appreciate beautiful material things, even if you don’t plan on buying them. Anti-materialism will keep you poor for sure!
• Grow out of your comfort zone and get some professional coaching to help you find out what your passions are and how you can make money from them.

Learning how to become wealthy requires intensive but FUN study. You’ll learn to use your GIFTS in a way that serves as many people as possible. It is part of your Life Mission!

I believe in you.

Dr. Karen Kan

PS:

February is LOVE month, so I’d like to share a valuable offer. As most of you know, Haiti and those that lost loved-ones have been on our minds and in our prayers since the earthquake in January. For the month of February, I’m donating 50% of the profits from my eBook and Law of Attraction Home Study Course sales to Haiti.

Please help me in giving to them (as well as giving to yourself)! Here are the links:

Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook

Law of Attraction in Love Home Study Course

Thank you in advance!

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

Monday’s Radio Show: How to Create a Magical Relationship

Join me for Monday's Law of Attraction in Love Radio Show: How to Create a Magical Relationship. I'm interviewing a fantastic woman who I met at a personal development training recently. Her name is Carele Belanger (pronounced the French way for all you folks from France and Canada!)

After many courses in the holistics field, in 2005 Carele Belanger earned her certificate as Master Practictioner NLP, (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). As an Achievement Coach, she guides her female clients to totally love themselves, stand up for themselves and to embody their Goddess within.

She believes that YOU can manifest a magical relationship. And she's going to help you do just that!

Carele's mission is to enlighten and empower women so they can be wealthy in all parts of their life. From that mission was born the Enlightened-Women website, the only Resources Website for women. www.enlightened-women.com

During the show, she'll teach you how to:

- Create the person you want to attract (in detail)
- Understand the subtleties of compromise and self-respect
- How love relationships can be Magical!

We look forward to having you call in and ask live questions during the show! Here's how:

Monday January 4th at 12PM noon (www.timezoneconverter.com)
Listen via web: www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren
Call in live: 347-945-6313 and dial "1" to put your hand up so I can see that you wish to ask a question.

And if you can't listen in at noon, you can always download the archived show free of charge on blog talk radio! Enjoy!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com